Comments on: Two Letters for Teen Trips – Adult Volunteer Version https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/ Daily Wisdom for Youth Workers. Tue, 15 Nov 2016 21:13:34 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.5 By: John Mulholland https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/#comment-288874 Thu, 22 Jan 2015 21:06:17 +0000 http://youthmindev.wpengine.com/?p=44400#comment-288874 Love this. Isn’t it crazy how the kids that we allow “last minute” or make the exceptions for are the ones who, well, you know.

Can’t wait to steal these letters for our upcoming events.

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By: John Mulholland https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/#comment-288878 Thu, 22 Jan 2015 21:06:17 +0000 http://youthmindev.wpengine.com/?p=44400#comment-288878 Love this. Isn’t it crazy how the kids that we allow “last minute” or make the exceptions for are the ones who, well, you know.

Can’t wait to steal these letters for our upcoming events.

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By: marc https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/#comment-288873 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 21:14:39 +0000 http://youthmindev.wpengine.com/?p=44400#comment-288873 In reply to Tony Myles.

awesome! we took our youth down to Fl (from tn) for camp this year and i told them that all electronic devices would be taken up during the week unless there was a dire emergency. I also strongly suggested listening to God honoring music there and back on the vans. it doesn’t make much sense to be going to camp and listening to eminem on the way back right? If i ever do anything involving hotels, i’ll take your advice here on the post! especially with there being hbo free on almost every room. it helps to curb the temptation for all!

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By: marc https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/#comment-288877 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 21:14:39 +0000 http://youthmindev.wpengine.com/?p=44400#comment-288877 In reply to Tony Myles.

awesome! we took our youth down to Fl (from tn) for camp this year and i told them that all electronic devices would be taken up during the week unless there was a dire emergency. I also strongly suggested listening to God honoring music there and back on the vans. it doesn’t make much sense to be going to camp and listening to eminem on the way back right? If i ever do anything involving hotels, i’ll take your advice here on the post! especially with there being hbo free on almost every room. it helps to curb the temptation for all!

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By: Tony Myles https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/#comment-288872 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 14:28:19 +0000 http://youthmindev.wpengine.com/?p=44400#comment-288872 In reply to Marc.

Hi Marc! It actually worked well, and usually does. The only time it’s backfired on me was when we had a girl sign up for a trip once the day before we left. She took a completely aloof attitude toward anything we said, and we didn’t find out about her cavalcade of electronics until we arrived. It meant an awkward call back home to her mom about it and a line in the sand – “We want you here, but you there’s a reason for this trip. You saw this information in the paperwork before we left and chose not to speak up, so this is your responsibility to make right. Either choose to let the trip and its purposes be more important than your electronics, or mom’s going to have to drive to pick you up because you feel this is unfair.” She chose to stay, but the whole trip gave every leader grief and looked for any hint of hypocrisy in us. I learned later that a chat with parents is even more important than the letter to the students, especially if they’re new.

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By: Tony Myles https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/#comment-288876 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 14:28:19 +0000 http://youthmindev.wpengine.com/?p=44400#comment-288876 In reply to Marc.

Hi Marc! It actually worked well, and usually does. The only time it’s backfired on me was when we had a girl sign up for a trip once the day before we left. She took a completely aloof attitude toward anything we said, and we didn’t find out about her cavalcade of electronics until we arrived. It meant an awkward call back home to her mom about it and a line in the sand – “We want you here, but you there’s a reason for this trip. You saw this information in the paperwork before we left and chose not to speak up, so this is your responsibility to make right. Either choose to let the trip and its purposes be more important than your electronics, or mom’s going to have to drive to pick you up because you feel this is unfair.” She chose to stay, but the whole trip gave every leader grief and looked for any hint of hypocrisy in us. I learned later that a chat with parents is even more important than the letter to the students, especially if they’re new.

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By: Marc https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/#comment-288871 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 13:57:50 +0000 http://youthmindev.wpengine.com/?p=44400#comment-288871 Tony, i’m wondering how the “tech un-plug” went for your group?

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By: Marc https://youthministry.com/two-letters-for-teen-trips-adult-volunteer-version/#comment-288875 Fri, 16 Jan 2015 13:57:50 +0000 http://youthmindev.wpengine.com/?p=44400#comment-288875 Tony, i’m wondering how the “tech un-plug” went for your group?

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